Dec 24, 2025
The Art of Being Visibly Yourself
- RisewithStyle.coach
- Jan 30
- 3 min read
Disguised — or consciously visible?
Your style speaks before you say a single word. Our clothing, our appearance, always sends messages. Whether we want it or not — we are being read.
Every person we meet perceives "our message": our posture, our colors, our silhouette. Every detail communicates something, whether we are aware of it or not.
So the real question is not whether we communicate — but what we communicate.
If that’s the case, wouldn’t it be wise to communicate consciously — including through our clothing? This is what we call impact intelligence.
“Those who create impact, win.”
So the question becomes: What do I gain?
What if you consciously decided to dress the way you want to be perceived?
Clothing speaks — quietly, but powerfully. When I create impact intentionally, I gain:
Respect
Space
Authority
I am perceived more clearly as a person
People listen to me more attentively
I myself feel more confident
Style begins with identity
Your style has everything to do with your identity — with the question:Who am I?And also: How does God see me?
Every garment says something:
“This is who I am.”
“This matters to me.”
“This is how I see myself.”
— or even: “I don’t care.”
Image consultant Amy Fine Collins puts it perfectly:
“What you wear on your body tells the world what you have in your mind.”
We are always communicating — even without words.That’s why clothing is never just external or superficial. It is an expression of our inner world.
Reinhold Ruthe says:
“Clothes are a mirror of the soul.”
We already see this truth revealed in the Garden of Eden:bAdam and Eve’s fig leaves expressed shame and vulnerability.bGod’s clothing, however, represented protection, dignity, quality, and beauty.
Time for honest reflection
Ask yourself intentionally:
How do I dress — and how do I present myself to the world?
What does my style communicate about me?
What do I actually want to communicate?
What kind of impact do I desire?
What do I want to “gain”?
What is ready to change?
What could be my first conscious step toward developing impact intelligence?
Where do I begin?
Three keys to conscious impact:
1. Identity — WHO are you?
Remember: you are a daughter of the King.A woman of dignity.A princess does not dress up to play a role — she dresses in alignment, awareness, and authenticity.
Develop your own Queen Style.
2. Find your style signature
Style is not fashion. Fashion comes and goes — style remains.
Style is like a tire tread: it leaves a trace.
People with style show character and profile.
Begin the journey of discovering your personal style.Your style signature is as unique as your fingerprint.
3. Highlight your strengths — with wisdom and intention
Here are some powerful style principles:
The power of accessories:
Intentional use of color, jewelry, scarves, bags, or shoes can make even a simple outfit shine.
Shine & fabrics:
Light, shiny materials attract attention — use them where you want emphasis.
Matte, darker fabrics are more subtle — use them where you prefer less focus.
Direct attention to your face:
It is your strongest expression. Your entire appearance should frame your face.
You should shine — not your clothes.
Proper cuts:
Don’t hide in oversized clothing — but avoid clothing that is too tight.
Both distract from your personality and your message.
Hair & lips:
A harmonious haircut and a soft lipstick give your face presence and freshness.
Remember, being disguised means playing a role. Being consciously and purposefully dressed means being yourself.
How did these reflections resonate with you?
What would you like to change intentionally — and what would you like to learn next?
If you desire to understand your impact more clearly, develop your personal style signature,and live your identity visibly, I would love to walk this journey with you.
📩 Message me “#STYLE” to learn more about my coaching offers in personal image & style consulting.
Be confident. Be visible. Be YOU.
Yours, Lynette Funk
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